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How far have you gone on a first date, with a total stranger.
How far have you gone on a first date, with a total stranger. |
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I agree with this totally. I watched a guy in the chatroom go on and on about a first date he was nervous about because he wanted to get laid, but if SHE did it he wouldn't be able to see her again because it made her a slut/whore. I told him why not he be the one to say no, and his reply was because he wanted to do it. The ideas and visuals in people's minds is and always will be a double standard to the majority. There is a horrific number of guys that think truly if a woman puts out on the first date she is worthless and women know this so they do not do it. It is a shame we have to do that, and it is pathetic as well as a shame that people have double standards, but they are there.
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TY!! I think the funniest part was that this guy saw nothing wrong with HIM doing it on the first date, but he condemned her if she did the same thing. Amazingly ignorant, but most of the planet sees it this way. Many a date has been lost because of ignorant men that condemn women for being and doing exactly as they do. Thank you again Boris!!
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I think in the twentyfirst century we should move beyond the negative attitudes prudes have of women who fuck on the first date... Just because she drops her draws on the first date with you, doesn't mean that she does it more often than every 50 first dates, or so. Guys just make the nastiest presumptions about women. They want sex with women so they're arseholes if they lay punitive titles on the women who give it. If all these women continue to refuse these dickheads, these dickheads would be stuck with some pretty dull or fucked-up options... Masturbation (surely they don't go on dates with that as their ambition at the end of the night), a fleshlight, a tranny, another guy or the cold shower their judgemental soul deserves.
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All the way, many times. Still here.
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Thank you, I stand corrected "prigs" is the word I was looking for and I did mean that it was primarily men who make these horrid judgements against women but sometimes other women who are inhibited do it too. My "mother" is a perfect example of this. Her attitude towards women who had healthy, natural sex lives was that they were perverting the image of women by being to "free and easy" and referred to them in vulgar and nasty terms and suggested that they should be subjected to certain fellonious behaviours (usually performed by men but the 'r' word can't be used on this tiddlywinks site) to cure them of their "filthy and disgraceful behaviour". For years I was indoctrinated into similar loathsome attitudes but eventually rationalized that people should not be pilloried nor punished for doing something perfectly wholesome and natural. I have always been entirely truthful about my sexual history whether I have posted the details or not but I accept what you are saying about most people and I think you are probably right. Megan6627 you are absolutely fine and in the right place!! Stories of all kinds here.
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3/24/2015 2:55 am |
I think this very much depends on the person. ik i have pretty sure others have too but hey its all good no matter which one
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3/24/2015 7:51 am |
we were getting together for sex----but the first meeting was in a public place,just to make sure there was a connection.....next meeting---motel room---shower---and fantastic sex
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3/24/2015 12:45 pm |
I hadn't thought of this in years, but I met a nice girl through a dating service and we went to an art exhibit and spent the afternoon chatting and looking at art. When we got back to the car we began to kiss and hug. Soon we were on the way to my place and we spent the night making mad passionate love. We continued seeing each other for a few months and had great sex.
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Gone all the way and it wasn't even really a date. For all the details, The Vacation Surprise, in the erotic stories section of the magazine. Impress me, by not trying to!
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Depends on the chemistry. I've barely kissed some, gone all the way with others.
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Correct. More people should learn the precise definitions. Whore and prostitute are synonyms as stated in the dictionary. I think he got his insults mixed up. The saying he was quoting was "a slut will do it with anyone and a bitch will do it with anyone other than you"... It's misogyny however it's served.
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I think it matters what your expectations/needs are. When I first came on here, I wasn't looking for anyone to date. I just needed sex. And my first hook up from AdultFriendFinder.co.uk, was real good. He did the job very well.. We texted for a bit, exchanged face photos, and then picked a night for him to come over. I was scared I wouldn't like him in person, but not what happened. Excellent kisser, great oral skills, hung like a horse, and knew how to use it. I'm very fond of him, as you can see.
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Well to say the least we are both consenting adults and if 2 GROWN ASS PEOPLE have sex .. oh well ..If they have built up a chemistry and have had great conversations before the date.. It will be all right. No one is perfect and we all are human and have needs.
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Unless its a one night stand pick up hook up, then sex is just sex pleasure one night and gone in the morning. If an individual is looking for some time of relationship, Pleasure is enhanced when you know the person your involved with more than a couple of hours, as well as possibly being drunk too.
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all the way if the lady is up for it, i certainly am lol BOOMSHENKA may the seed of your loin be fruitfull in the belly of your woman.(neil - the young ones)
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3/29/2015 6:47 am |
He opened his door and attacked me, so right away.
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3/29/2015 6:48 am |
The first minute.
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All the way Jose ! There were quite a few if I hadn't done them the first night , it wouldn't have happened as I wouldn't have wasted the time energy or Benjamins to take them out again ! And several of those that got nailed the first night never were called again .
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if there is a connection and both people are up for some fun after the initial meeting, then what's the problem??
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Thank you all for contributing to this poll and for some of the interesting stories. One of the reasons we asked this question is because over 10 years ago my wife and I met on chat room and after chatting a few times decided to meet and ended up having sex that same night and here are happily together many years later. It is a shame how women are looked upon for sleeping with someone on the first date. The way I saw it we had a special connection and where very drawn to each other I did not think any less of her.
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