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How far have you gone on a first date, with a total stranger.  

CplL4FuninSFL 49M/40F
62 posts
3/22/2015 8:06 am
How far have you gone on a first date, with a total stranger.

Going out on a date with someone you already know does not count. What I want to know is about going on your first date with someone you have met online (or setup in a blind date) and are actually meeting for the first time.
Just a hug and kiss on the cheek good night.
Just making out, dry humping and or groping.
Oral either giving, receiving or both.
Gone all the way
Had crazy kinky sex, the type that should only be done with someone you known for a while


rdy2try4 58F  
3330 posts
3/22/2015 8:40 am

    Quoting  :

I agree with this totally. I watched a guy in the chatroom go on and on about a first date he was nervous about because he wanted to get laid, but if SHE did it he wouldn't be able to see her again because it made her a slut/whore. I told him why not he be the one to say no, and his reply was because he wanted to do it. The ideas and visuals in people's minds is and always will be a double standard to the majority. There is a horrific number of guys that think truly if a woman puts out on the first date she is worthless and women know this so they do not do it. It is a shame we have to do that, and it is pathetic as well as a shame that people have double standards, but they are there.


rdy2try4 58F  
3330 posts
3/22/2015 12:14 pm

    Quoting  :

TY!! I think the funniest part was that this guy saw nothing wrong with HIM doing it on the first date, but he condemned her if she did the same thing. Amazingly ignorant, but most of the planet sees it this way. Many a date has been lost because of ignorant men that condemn women for being and doing exactly as they do. Thank you again Boris!!


rdy2try4 58F  
3330 posts
3/23/2015 8:09 am

    Quoting AmeliaCox:
    I think in the twentyfirst century we should move beyond the negative attitudes prudes have of women who fuck on the first date... Just because she drops her draws on the first date with you, doesn't mean that she does it more often than every 50 first dates, or so. Guys just make the nastiest presumptions about women. They want sex with women so they're arseholes if they lay punitive titles on the women who give it. If all these women continue to refuse these dickheads, these dickheads would be stuck with some pretty dull or fucked-up options... Masturbation (surely they don't go on dates with that as their ambition at the end of the night), a fleshlight, a tranny, another guy or the cold shower their judgemental soul deserves.
Although I agree with you totally, society at large does not. It isn't the women who are the "prigs", which is the word you want, not prude, but the MEN that are condemning the women. I agree, the men are very nasty and make these presumptions and calls. I have seen many a guy say that he would ONLY be here to f*ck around, but he would never ever EVER marry a chick from here. I have replied that they are here, what does that make them?? They fail to see the difference. The idea that their daughter may want a healthy and exciting sex life is out of the question as well. They want things they totally refuse to even consider their daughters doing with a man. They do, sadly, believe that if a woman would have sex with them on the first date that she would do it with every other guy or wonder how many other guys and that is a turn off to them. Yet as women we are supposed to hold men that have sex with 500 women as virile and macho. Yes, not all men are like this, but I have seen it, heard it, read it, and discussed it over the years with many a guy on here and too many still buy into this idea. Sad and pathetic, but it happens no matter how much we wish it wouldn't, and so you will not get women to answer or act as they may want to. I am sure the majority of things posted even here on this site are fantasies that people want you to believe they did and in reality they don't do 1/4 of the things they post they did.


_JKH_ 69M
5448 posts
3/23/2015 5:07 pm

All the way, many times. Still here.

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rdy2try4 58F  
3330 posts
3/23/2015 6:20 pm

    Quoting AmeliaCox:
    Thank you, I stand corrected "prigs" is the word I was looking for and I did mean that it was primarily men who make these horrid judgements against women but sometimes other women who are inhibited do it too. My "mother" is a perfect example of this. Her attitude towards women who had healthy, natural sex lives was that they were perverting the image of women by being to "free and easy" and referred to them in vulgar and nasty terms and suggested that they should be subjected to certain fellonious behaviours (usually performed by men but the 'r' word can't be used on this tiddlywinks site) to cure them of their "filthy and disgraceful behaviour". For years I was indoctrinated into similar loathsome attitudes but eventually rationalized that people should not be pilloried nor punished for doing something perfectly wholesome and natural.
    I have always been entirely truthful about my sexual history whether I have posted the details or not but I accept what you are saying about most people and I think you are probably right.
LOL more than welcome.. YOU ROCK!! I myself am prudent.. I always take my time in making my choices and stand a bit more reserved, but that doesn't mean I do nothing. I wear my title well. PRIG I am not!! Not by a far cry. You are so correct that women do that as well. In regards to this site, I still stand on many make claims of things that never even happened to make themselves look good and I just smile and wave... maybe laugh along the way too.

Megan6627 you are absolutely fine and in the right place!! Stories of all kinds here.


LongnTall777 28M

3/24/2015 2:55 am

I think this very much depends on the person. ik i have pretty sure others have too but hey its all good no matter which one


nudecountryboy2 71M/70F

3/24/2015 7:51 am

we were getting together for sex----but the first meeting was in a public place,just to make sure there was a connection.....next meeting---motel room---shower---and fantastic sex


SexForFunGuy 71M

3/24/2015 12:45 pm

I hadn't thought of this in years, but I met a nice girl through a dating service and we went to an art exhibit and spent the afternoon chatting and looking at art. When we got back to the car we began to kiss and hug. Soon we were on the way to my place and we spent the night making mad passionate love. We continued seeing each other for a few months and had great sex.


rm_dpg1217 59M
427 posts
3/24/2015 12:52 pm

Gone all the way and it wasn't even really a date. For all the details, The Vacation Surprise, in the erotic stories section of the magazine.

Impress me, by not trying to!


13hammertyme69 59F
95 posts
3/24/2015 9:10 pm

Depends on the chemistry. I've barely kissed some, gone all the way with others.


rdy2try4 58F  
3330 posts
3/25/2015 12:39 pm

    Quoting AmeliaCox:
    Correct. More people should learn the precise definitions. Whore and prostitute are synonyms as stated in the dictionary.

    I think he got his insults mixed up. The saying he was quoting was "a slut will do it with anyone and a bitch will do it with anyone other than you"... It's misogyny however it's served.
LOL I have to add this because you are correct on definitions; however, in today's society they interchange them. I have seen a ton of men and heard a ton of men state that when their wife cheated on them she was a 'cheating whore.' I am SURE she didn't stand on the corner collecting money, but they say it and they know how detrimental it is, the same as saying someone is a slut is. Men hear those two words and when they are angry they are VERY interchangeable, especially if they didn't get what they wanted. I have been called a whore when I did not even put out!! SOOOO not the definition of either word. It is still misogyny is correct, putting a woman down for enjoying sex and daring to live on an equal sexual plain as a man. High 5 ladies.


sweetlips_03 45F
1271 posts
3/26/2015 5:44 pm

I think it matters what your expectations/needs are. When I first came on here, I wasn't looking for anyone to date. I just needed sex. And my first hook up from AdultFriendFinder.co.uk, was real good. He did the job very well.. We texted for a bit, exchanged face photos, and then picked a night for him to come over. I was scared I wouldn't like him in person, but not what happened. Excellent kisser, great oral skills, hung like a horse, and knew how to use it. I'm very fond of him, as you can see.

Sweet Kisses
sweetlips_03


ronni169 53F
10 posts
3/26/2015 10:37 pm

Well to say the least we are both consenting adults and if 2 GROWN ASS PEOPLE have sex .. oh well ..If they have built up a chemistry and have had great conversations before the date.. It will be all right. No one is perfect and we all are human and have needs.


Coasterfan1969 55M  
115 posts
3/27/2015 4:02 pm

Unless its a one night stand pick up hook up, then sex is just sex pleasure one night and gone in the morning. If an individual is looking for some time of relationship, Pleasure is enhanced when you know the person your involved with more than a couple of hours, as well as possibly being drunk too.


itimebomb666 57M
521 posts
3/27/2015 6:37 pm

all the way if the lady is up for it, i certainly am lol

BOOMSHENKA may the seed of your loin be fruitfull in the belly of your woman.(neil - the young ones)


AnnaBeHere 38F

3/29/2015 6:47 am

He opened his door and attacked me, so right away.


AnnaBeHere 38F

3/29/2015 6:48 am

The first minute.


sika41 62M
643 posts
4/1/2015 4:26 pm

All the way Jose !

There were quite a few if I hadn't done them the first night , it wouldn't have happened as I wouldn't have wasted the time energy or Benjamins to take them out again !

And several of those that got nailed the first night never were called again .


chickmag69 49M
33 posts
4/2/2015 10:00 am

if there is a connection and both people are up for some fun after the initial meeting, then what's the problem??


CplL4FuninSFL 49M/40F
10 posts
4/10/2015 4:40 pm

Thank you all for contributing to this poll and for some of the interesting stories. One of the reasons we asked this question is because over 10 years ago my wife and I met on chat room and after chatting a few times decided to meet and ended up having sex that same night and here are happily together many years later.

It is a shame how women are looked upon for sleeping with someone on the first date. The way I saw it we had a special connection and where very drawn to each other I did not think any less of her.


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