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kzoopair 72M/71F
25831 posts
3/1/2015 10:16 pm

Being watched isn't that much of a turn on for me. I was a hippie, I've been watched. I just didn't much give a shit if anyone was looking. Later, recalling the event with friends who might have been watching...now that was fun! Your technique is then open to judgement and scoring.

Watching others can be hit or miss. A lot of sex is gonna look boring, I think. But it's fun to look in general. Males are especially visually oriented, and I do like watching most of the time. I was making a delivery one day in an iffy neighborhood in Battle Creek and watched the guy who was supposed to be on duty and receiving my freight get a blowjob in a cul de sac behind the factory from a hooker. That was fun and funny. He figured out I had been watching and was embarrassed, and that was half the fun. I didn't tease him about it, I was sympathetic and told him it was cool- he did what anybody would do. He got a chance to get his dick sucked on a nooner and he took advantage of it. I reckon I'd rather watch than be watched any day.

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lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
3/1/2015 10:51 pm

It's quite common to watch someone with all the videos on the market and internet. So my line of thinking is watching a vid is very similar to seeing the real thing, but to be "watched" is a total different ballgame!
"Batter up"!!


fun_2000 62M
818 posts
3/1/2015 11:25 pm

I would like both but would want to start by watching. Preferably with a partner of my own.


resant78 45M  
3326 posts
3/2/2015 12:39 am

I'd rather be watched.
A few years ago I met up with a woman and her husband, he liked to watch and take pictures.
So as the woman and I started to get frisky then naked followed by sucking and fucking the husband was photographing the entire time.

If I were in the position of watching, I may just take my dick out and start jacking it.


hughjarce 68M
595 posts
3/2/2015 1:44 am

I have always been an exhibitionist and although watching a hot session would no doubt arouse me, I would have loved to have 'performed' for other people -in my prime, when I was younger and slimmer ha ha...


pal334 69M  
45821 posts
3/2/2015 3:58 am

"I'd like both equally". At parties it is unavoidable

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Luvstoplezeu 65M
234 posts
3/2/2015 5:41 am

I think I would rather be watched. I think watching would just be frustrating as I would want to participate and if I could not it would be too frustrating.


RobK2006 56M
5998 posts
3/2/2015 5:52 am

I've never done it, but the thought of being watched turns me on hugely. I sometimes have fantasies where I am being filmed in a porno. The fantasy usually revolves around me and a friend doing it for money and we've never had sex with each other before. Actually, for some reason, I often thing of one particular woman I know when I have this fantasy.


Not_here2meet 55F
3843 posts
3/2/2015 5:58 am

Okay, we both know I love being watched...love it.

I have been to swinger's clubs, honestly...it's the exhibitionism much more than voyeurism for me. I get bored watching and want to "do"

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veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
21770 posts
3/2/2015 6:43 am

I would like both....I am a voyeur...and I would like to be watched!

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sehd07 57M
1059 posts
3/2/2015 7:42 am

I have done both in the past but I would prefer not to watch or be a voyeur


ProfPlayful 53M
3861 posts
3/2/2015 11:02 am

I haven't done any of it but I'm sure I would be able to perform while being watched. I doubt, however, that I would enjoy watching unless my own needs were already satisfied.

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hiddenmythology 44M
9643 posts
3/2/2015 11:18 am

I voted that I would rather watch someone than be watched. The reason being is because I would love to be behind the camera that was filming the whole event

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packageman57 67M
1093 posts
3/2/2015 12:02 pm

I'd much rather participate than watch, but watching can be hot too...so I checked both.


rm_rakehell500 70M
4241 posts
3/2/2015 12:38 pm

I'm not much of a performer, but I know what great sex I would have with some of my partners if they were being observed. I've been watched in a threesome and a fivesome, but the others were just taking a break.

If I'm turned on enough I don't care.



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pacnwlover42 55M
9808 posts
3/2/2015 1:08 pm

I wouldn't mind being watched while having sex, but it depends on whose watching. Also, I do have a fantasy of masturbating and cumming into a woman's mouth while a group of women are watching me.

Funny women are incredibly sexy!


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
3/2/2015 2:15 pm

I like to watch.. hugssssssssssss V

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lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
3/2/2015 2:39 pm

intendadiversion replies on 3/2/2015 1:59 am:
Did you make a choice?

"I did"!!!!


_JKH_ 69M
5448 posts
3/2/2015 2:48 pm

Neither for me.

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insatiable_man2 65M
2032 posts
3/2/2015 3:44 pm

I would rather be watched because if I was watching I would end up fucking somebody!!!


luvexotic 62M

3/2/2015 4:33 pm

With my first wife many years ago with my first wife we did this once in the same room as another couple. It was so horny fucking my wife while watching my mate fuck his wife. When we had finished and both girl's were dripping with cum, we decided to wife-swap and eat the other's wife's cum-filled pussy. Within minutes I was hard and ready to go again.


Borntobeefree72 51F
2596 posts
3/2/2015 4:39 pm

Would not enjoy watching , however do enjoy being watched.

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markcorvallis2 64M
800 posts
3/2/2015 4:58 pm

if it's a choice between the two i would want to be watched, i am n exhibitionist, also if i am being watched it means i am getting to have sex. the best thing might be a room with multiple couples having sex and watching each other, then if you finish you can watch others until you are ready again.


FEAB1968 55F  
4441 posts
3/2/2015 5:22 pm

I'm more of an exhibitionist than voyeur, but I have done both. My preference is to have others watch, I think this is only because I would want to be having the sex versus just watching someone else have the fun. I am selfish like that...lol.

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SirTeezalot 74M
21966 posts
3/2/2015 7:38 pm

If you had asked me 30 years ago the answer might have been a lot more interesting.

But I don't think I would ever have been comfortable in the same room as another couple having a shag. Perhaps its an allergy to blokes because I would also never have been bothered if another woman saw me shag.

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lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
3/2/2015 8:40 pm

intendadiversion replies on 3/2/2015 11:04 pm:
Hmmmm, and what was it?

Wasn't it a "secret" vote?


resant78 45M  
3326 posts
3/2/2015 11:39 pm

that's very nice of you to notice you know, when I was a teenager and I saw my first porn movie, I thought I was average size because the guys in the video had similar sized dicks as mine.
Anyways, what ended up happening was, Her and I met either here or in a chat room, we chatted for several months, she sent me pics and I sent her pics. Eventually she wanted to know if I wanted to meet in person, but she told me her hub would be there. I said that's fine.
I rented a hotel room, they drove from about 30 miles away and met me there.
Her and I played for about an hour and a half, and when we were done, they got their stuff, the wife got dressed and they left. I kept the hotel room for the night. I never got the see the husband naked, so I don't know if that was the case.
One of the naughtiest, sexiest things I've done. and I loved it.


1tongue4yall 64M
2205 posts
3/3/2015 4:34 am

I checked both. I love to show off. I think it is a real turn on to be watched and know I am getting the ones watching me very hot.
I also love watching others have sex. it is so hot to watch the passion and pleasure being had by them. so hot.
but watching in person....


RobK2006 56M
5998 posts
3/3/2015 9:39 am

Sometimes when I'm masturbating, I'll think of a scenario where I'm roommates with a woman, but we're just friends. In our apartment, the doors aren't very soundproof at all and I can hear her masturbating or having sex and she can hear me doing the same. I'll be jerking off and just the noise from me jerking off my cock will be loud enough that she can hear it, or I'll be able to hear her wetly fucking herself with a dildo.


smallfour5 65M
76 posts
3/3/2015 12:14 pm

i would like to watch then if all ok join in or stroke in the background ,


khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
3/3/2015 1:30 pm

Always more fun to be a participant instead of a spectator.

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luvexotic 62M

3/3/2015 4:39 pm

intendadiversion replies on 3/3/2015 2:08 pm:
Did you get to fuck your friend's wife too?

Short answer - yes. Long answer - While eating her cum-filled pussy, she saw my hardening dick and asked both my wife and her husband if it was okay for her to put it to good use. When both said yes, she lowered herself on to my cock and began to ride me and finally getting me to fill her pussy with a second load of cum she then fed to her husband, who was enjoying the oral ministrations of my wife.


NJGUY08090 57M
4306 posts
3/3/2015 7:30 pm

I'd Enjoy helping out with that bucket list. I like to be watched but I'm not goin to say I would look as others having sex. It one of those things that just catches you attention.


resant78 45M  
3326 posts
3/3/2015 10:10 pm

I had a feeling they probably had an open relationship.
I was never actually worried, but it definitely crossed my mind that it would be two versus one. But the fact that her and I chatted very intimately for almost a year before we even met, I felt very confident that nothing bad was going to happen.
We continued to chat after us meeting, but we slowly lost touch, I do think about her on occasion.


cyclingfool 62M  
6666 posts
3/4/2015 6:27 am

If my partner was willing I'd enjoy both, but only if she would have fun with it. I wouldn't want to force it and have it be the core of an argument later.


Sexybooknerd2 33F
14 posts
3/5/2015 12:41 am

I really don't like to be watched!! I wouldn't mind watching though


twosecretlovers replies on 3/5/2015 8:31 pm:
Thanks for the vote and comment!

nudecountryboy2 71M/70F

3/5/2015 8:04 am

I like both-----being watched----then take a break and watch---then repeat


jerzeyshoreguy3 76M
37 posts
3/5/2015 11:51 am

I have to be one of the luckiest men on earth. I have watched, been watched and been involved in F/M/F, M/F/M and shortly after I was married, the man that was my best man and I, his in our weddings had sex in the same bed together. I'm not bragging, it's just the plain truth.


friendwobenefits 69M
409 posts
3/5/2015 2:52 pm

I recently had an opportunity to experience both and I'll tell you it was hot hot hot. To be watched was very erotic - made he hard as hell. Watching was nice too but without any prior discussion I wasn't sure everyone wanted to be watched so I restricted my self to about 3 steamboats. That's 3 full seconds. I mean I would have pulled up a chair and watched. I'm curious as to how others fuck. Positions, speed, duration, sounds. Real genuine fucking not fake porn stuff.


tresennui 69F  
2482 posts
3/5/2015 6:43 pm

I'm definitely more of a doer than a watcher. Who would have thunk

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jerzeyshoreguy3 76M
37 posts
3/8/2015 11:07 am

Yup...a little uncomfortable at first, but exciting at the same time


rm_hardee1952 72M
148 posts
6/25/2015 1:40 pm

My girl friend in high school dared me to have sex one day with our best friends. We double dated a lot, and would have sex in the back seat of my car while my friend drove. Then I would drive and Ray and his girl friend would get completely naked and fuck. A lot of times we would pull off on a lonely side road and watch. Carol enjoyed touching Ray and his girl at times.

So I have always been comfortable having sex with friends around. I like to be watched

Hardee


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