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I just...LOVE...when females waste my time. LOVE IT!
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"Pushy"? No. She lost interest in you on day one. You told her you wanted to meet, and you offered a place to meet.... then she disappeared. She's not interested. If "Real life" crowds out a 30 minute meeting, then 1- she's not interested, ..or..2- She doesn't have time to be playing online, and shouldn't be doing this. If she was really busy, for real.....you're wasting your time trying to meet her. She will never have time . Making arrangements to do anything would be nightmare. Never give your phone number to someone online whom you've never met. She lives in the area.. she could have easily set aside one hour to meet with you, if she was interested. In future endeavors , "Don't ask the woman if she wants to meet"..... Just tell her, "I want to meet you, ..meet me at Starbucks today, at 4:30 for about half an hour"..... If she doesn't agree to that, or if she doesn't counter with another place and time.... she's not interested.... nothing is going to happen. And that countered "Place and time" better be within 24 hours or 48 hours. If not... you're wasting your time. .
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She sounded like she was stringing you along, waiting for an excuse to say goodbye. You gave her one when you mentioned things were "off putting", and a meeting wouldn't have to be " sexual"... Those two lines were her " out" . No worries. Plenty of fish in the sea. Just need to put out the right bait. 🌊🐠🐟🐧 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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4/22/2019 11:06 am |
lol sorry I meant curving not cloaking the two terms are similar but not alike...make sense? curving: example: I spent a month texting one woman who usually took forever to respond and when she did she would usually give short answers and rarely asked any questions,,this is Jake from NY 28 yr old.".I am not proud of how log I kept it up but it was like she did just enough to keep me going thinking I was on track with her " Sometimes it take weeks for a response and then they always have an excuse as to why no or late response..People curve as they ghost because they not any longer want to engage but do not seem to want to give the other person time to react with confrontation...they do usually disappear ...but may return...its best at that point to disengage them ...tell them you are no longer available...
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4/22/2019 10:02 am |
i have a simple rule that i follow... make contact, arrange a meet before i get attached. if they cancel (which can happen) and set up a alternative date, then it is possible they want to meet if they cancel and DO NOT set an alternative date... then they are putting on their running shoes! as for why... i don't worry. i don't care. there must be thousands of people in your town, and thousands of reasons but only one matters there will be no meet and that i like to know before investing any emotions! bonne chance
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4/22/2019 9:53 am |
well no she originally did not ghost you she cloaked you which is the worst way and the next step up of ghosting ...real life stuff got in the way? hmmm is not being on a date site or matched up on any site not real life stuff? again she seems like someone who will do that to anyone who is real...women and men know without a doubt that they always have others to talk to that they think is better than the next...Mature women do not do that they stand their ground reply within reason and tell you whether they are attracted or not..btw cloaking is a term that means keeping you at arms length within a " cloak of darkness " , that way if someone else the person is contacting does not work out ..the cloaked person is chosen as " second " best...You were not unreasonable , she seen someone as an easy target for some reason....
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4/22/2019 9:38 am |
i have a simple rule that i follow... make contact, arrange a meet before i get attached. if they cancel (which can happen) and set up a alternative date, then it is possible they want to meet if they cancel and DO NOT set an alternative date... then they are putting on their running shoes! as for why... i don't worry. i don't care. there must be thousands of people in your town, and thousands of reasons but only one matters there will be no meet and that i like to know before investing any emotions! bonne chance there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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4/22/2019 9:28 am |
I have had the same thing happen to me as well. we had exchanged pictures and she was interested and then nothing. I was respectful and not pushy at all. I think some females just don't care at all and play games. a real woman would let you know what's up.
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She may have been chatting with other guys on Tinder...guys who she was a bit more interested in...but she was continuing to string you along in case those fell through. Or, she might be one of those people that just likes getting the attention of getting messages there, but is not really serious about meeting anyone. It's frustrating I know. I've been on Tinder since November. Very few matches, even fewer conversations, and all of the conversations have sputtered to a halt before meeting anyone. I'm planning on deleting at the end of this month.
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