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What is wrong With People   7/29/2019

Is is so hard to just say no thank you I am not interested. I had invested some time and effort into communicating with someone. My husband said he might be interested in a couples sort of situation. So I shared that. After multiple communications and trying to arrange a time to meet. I extended multiple invitations including drinks with our spouses and then to a swing party. I had assumed he ...


4 Comments, 83 Views, 29 Votes ,4.04 Score
MilfHunter78416 26 M
2  Articles
Being a young guy into older women   7/26/2019

Why is it so hard to find a good woman who loves men? Is it something people are ashamed of in 2019 of all years? Girls my age are not drawn to me the way older women are but still it seems none of them want to commit to their feelings and urges. I honestly dont see color or age or shape as long as we respect each other but I do wish I could find an older woman to treat the way she deserves. ...


1 Comments, 2 Views, 0 Votes
Cjay9205 32 M
5  Articles
Fake pictures   7/23/2019

Why are there sooooo many fake pictures on here? some even use the photo for multiple accounts cant stand it! less faking more fucking am i right


1 Comments, 7 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
Childish insults   7/22/2019

I am constantly amazed as what passes for mature behavior on this site. Recently a man sent a message, I politely said no thank you and (while not necessary )I explained why. His response was write an insult. For the men complain that women don't respond your emails or instant messages this is part of the reason. Just because we are also using this site does not mean we don't want ...


10 Comments, 91 Views, 28 Votes ,4.88 Score
You Deserve to be Picky   7/8/2019

Don't do what I did. <br><br> As a young bi-curious guy on this site, my first experience that came from here was... mediocre to say the least. I didn't have prior experience sexually and I settled for the first man willing to suck me off just out of convenience. I thought I wouldn't get other offers. <br><br> So now, the image of a toothy blowjob from an obese ...


1 Comments, 23 Views, 12 Votes ,1.56 Score
emotional rollercoaster   6/21/2019

always feel bad when i have to turn someone down, less a guy thats pretty fucking easy , God! Any advise how to let someone down without hurting their feelings! It sucks to do it, I hate it.


2 Comments, 17 Views, 9 Votes ,1.50 Score
Grewpetty 57 M
9  Articles
No means no   6/19/2019

It's not easy say "No Thanks", especially when the other person is interested and you aren't. I think some subtle attempts work best, with a final heart heart often the way.


1 Comments, 40 Views, 12 Votes ,0.86 Score
Needtoeatit6969 45 M
1  Article
Response on IM   6/19/2019

Why is it that 80% of the people on IM don’t respond at all? If you’re not interested say so, don’t just leave someone to wonder if the P.O.S. Messenger app is actually sending their messages


9 Comments, 48 Views, 21 Votes ,3.00 Score
Chench090 31 M
3  Articles
Wasting points   6/10/2019

Why do we even have points if thet never txt u bak its so stupid i dnt even know why i keep wasting points for.


2 Comments, 24 Views, 15 Votes ,3.44 Score
Zcemer 50 M
2  Articles
No response   5/23/2019

I have recieved numerous messages and IMs and have gotten no replies back. What is the purpose of reaching out and not saying a thing. Makes you wonder why. Post a response and share your thoughts on one. I'm sure there's plenty of people on here would like to know how you feel.


1 Comments, 15 Views, 5 Votes ,0.86 Score
tauntress10 45 F
2  Articles
Expectations vs No Expectations   5/19/2019

There is maybe a perception that all messages deserve a response. However, as a woman who chooses to interact in an adult forum online, I would suggest maybe less emphasis is placed on the recipient responding and perhaps the senders have less expectations. I would take the attitude, if a message of mine is not responded to they are not interested or simply too busy. As I too have messaged ...


12 Comments, 182 Views, 43 Votes ,3.46 Score
Mrmagnum1973 41 M
21  Articles
I miss her   5/19/2019

Her husband dosnt let her anymore but weve become friends do u think she will suck and fuck me again?


1 Comments, 31 Views, 20 Votes ,1.59 Score
Downtobusiness66 30 M
6  Articles
How to get men to stop messaging me   5/15/2019

I get messaged way more by men than women on here. I have my profile set as straight(women only) but somehow men are messaging me. Is there anyway I can put a spot to this. don’t have a problem with gay or bi people but it’s just not for . Any advice would be great because it’s getting ridiculous. Thanks


3 Comments, 33 Views, 13 Votes ,2.30 Score
reallythick0325 41 M
1  Article
why is it so hard for girls to just say no?   5/9/2019

I understand the possible stigma's or asshole-ish responses might get from jerks who think they are owed sex because (who knows why.) But Is it really hard, especially in a virtual setting, or in a , to just say "sorry, I changed my mind, " or flat out, "no." asking because I feel as though some women who did not tell me they had changed their minds and just decided to ...


4 Comments, 46 Views, 25 Votes ,0.59 Score
Should saying "No Thanks" or "Not interested" be a common courtesy!?   5/2/2019

I feel if someone takes the time to acknowledge you, you should be taking the time to acknowledge them back even if your not interested! Do others feel it is rude to not respond to a message sent to you? Or am I alone on this one?


7 Comments, 49 Views, 17 Votes ,2.42 Score
ThickerThanILook 23 M
3  Articles
Pointers   5/1/2019

Just here for them points


2 Comments, 18 Views, 13 Votes ,2.47 Score
dickmeh9 37 M
1  Article
Funny. "Saying no thanks" was gonna be my title.   4/29/2019

You know what I truly enjoy? Hitting on dudes I know are gonna be uncomfortable when I do so. Not cause I expect a positive response, but because the negative responses lead to my favorite thing to tell a dude: 's how you make women feel. I especially love to do this after witnessing them making an ass out of themselves when hitting on one of my friends. <br><br> This applies to ...


2 Comments, 22 Views, 15 Votes ,0.99 Score
points   4/27/2019

points points points points points


1 Comments, 16 Views, 13 Votes ,1.13 Score
silura99 40 F
3  Articles
Do you really accept a "no, thank you"?   4/15/2019

I see a few people asking why can't women just say "no, thank you" instead of not replying? Well, here's this, not all people take gracefully. Some decide to berate you or to continually contact you after you've declined. I've had to say no to the same individuals multiple times until I've had to block them. Is okay? If someone doesn't respond to me, I take ...


11 Comments, 112 Views, 39 Votes ,2.99 Score
Messaging   4/15/2019

Someone tell me what doing wrong. I message people politely and introduce myself. I ask how they are doing day and offer to send a pic so they can see what i look like or most times just send a face pic. Still only 1 out of maybe 15 reply or even read my message. Any suggestions


6 Comments, 26 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
jackswallowsit 66 M
5  Articles
Not 'no thanks' but 'can't now' ....   4/10/2019

I normally have to plan my playtimes, for very specific days and hours. Frequently I get into conversations with guys who get very rude when I can't drop things and ' now' to take care of their wants. not turning them down, just letting them know I have time constraints, like most folks have. I get every response from the usual 'you're missing a good thing' to the ...


3 Comments, 35 Views, 19 Votes ,1.41 Score
baseball2657 66 C
4  Articles
Wondering Mind   4/7/2019

My mind wonders. Could I be Bi-sexual.I like a like looking dicks and sometimes get excited. I throb when I watch.


3 Comments, 50 Views, 18 Votes ,1.62 Score
Saying no thanks, because , as imagined , couples are scarce.. Hurry up and get a gold account   4/7/2019

Nothing ever changes. Are there no real couples , anywhere?


1 Comments, 19 Views, 9 Votes ,1.07 Score
theattu 28 M
2  Articles
points   4/7/2019

just here for the points


3 Comments, 17 Views, 11 Votes ,3.17 Score
TwanTseX27 33 M
4  Articles
2019 Greetings   4/2/2019

ARE YOU RUDE NICE OR JUST GHOST A PERSON WHEN YOU TELL THEM NO THANKS?


1 Comments, 15 Views, 7 Votes ,1.26 Score
Oscarmike12 30 M
6  Articles
Why   3/29/2019

Why don't more women just say "no thanks"? It can be frustrating to figure if a woman wants to meetup or not. Not replying in I get for standard users, but gold members don't bother. Makes me want to delete this


3 Comments, 28 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
points   3/25/2019

points points points points points


1 Comments, 3 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
dan_is_wild2 49 M
5  Articles
Why i came here   3/16/2019

I came to this site after i lost my wife to cancer. I was a lost man who was spoiled and loved at same time. I am here to learn what women of today want and what i can bring from the past to today and still enjoy . But to my shock after 4 years of great marrage that some women not all women on here are only after Itune cards or other things to have me buy for them. But im not here to buy ...


4 Comments, 32 Views, 12 Votes ,1.74 Score
ttazz316 58 M
8  Articles
please be polite   3/9/2019

what is it girls can;t reply and just say not interested thanks


6 Comments, 30 Views, 10 Votes ,2.19 Score
Love2Pleazer 47 M
5  Articles
Scammer, fakes and frauds   3/8/2019

What is going here shaking my head? So many boys, scammer profiles and they're so aggressive like wtf!


3 Comments, 24 Views, 9 Votes ,1.93 Score