We have been active in the lfestyle for a few years. We don’™t do drama, jealousy, or lying. Everyone just wants to have fun. We enjoy all types, by the way. We have a Red Room, but that doesn’t mean BDSM is all we are into. We are secure in our marriage, but still like to play together because we like to see the other receive pleasure. The husband starts the communication and she will join in if there is interest.